Monday, January 21, 2008

Best Friends!!!

Many of you know that K.C. and I have been dating for two months now. And most of you were extremely concerned about how fast our relationship had progressed and urged us to step back and not be too hasty. Well I'm here to say that K.C. and I have talked about things and we have decided to take that step back. Before we were open to dating other people if the opportunity arose, but we are very open to that option now. For now and the next long while we are just going to be friends- no kissing, no hand holding, no cuddling, none of that boyfriend/girlfriend stuff. It is going to be hard and such, but not impossible. Things actually have worked out really well the past couple days that we have tried it. We want to make sure that we have a strong foundation based on friendship before we completely commit for life and this seems to be the best way to do it. Both of us are extremely determined to make this work as friends and not simply give up, so believe in us and it will help! Funny thought though that K.C. had: many people have a relationship that is simply "Friends with benefits." K.C. and I are more like "Boyfriend and Girlfriend without benefits." I thought it was funny :D

P.S. Sorry about the picture! It isn't the best quality, but it is the one I had. Handsome, isn't he? It was taken the night of our first date.

3 comments:

K.C. said...

Oh c'mon I bet you had tons of other pictures of me that looked MUCH better and actually did me justice! :D Thanks X for everything you do and the friendship you give. You are the best!

Caroline said...

Hmmmm. . . very interesting. You will have to keep us up to date. Sorry I haven't emailed you back yet, we're still trying to nail down our FL trip dates. Give me a call if it becomes urgent. Love you!

Lane & Carolyn Howell said...

We like the photo...pass along any others you find. Good luck with your plans. We want your happiness and success. Continue taking the steps to get you where you need to be. And always remember that tho' the miles be many our phone number takes only a few seconds to dial. xoxo